Relationship Roles

Effective coaches are flexible in their approach and responsive to the needs of the educators they support. Rather than operating from a single stance, coaches often shift between three primary roles: Coach, Consultant/Mentor, and Collaborator. Each role serves a distinct purpose and is grounded in the context, goals, and readiness of the educator.

The table below outlines the key characteristics of each role to help coaches reflect on their stance and intentionally select the one that best supports teacher growth. Understanding these roles empowers coaches to build stronger partnerships, foster trust, and maximize their impact.

CharacteristicCoachConsultant / MentorCollaborator
Primary PurposeImprove practice through reflection, goal-setting, and data-driven supportShare expertise, provide guidance, and model based on experiencePartner in thinking, co-create ideas, and problem-solve together
StanceFacilitative, asks questions to lead thinkingAdvisory, offers suggestions or models based on expertiseBrainstorms, plans, and reflects side-by-side
ExpertiseSkilled in coaching models and reflective practicesContent or experience-based expertiseKnowledgeable and open to co-learning and mutual inquiry
Focus Specific, measurable goals tied to instructional practiceSituational support or professional growth based on context or roleJoint ownership of an idea, problem, or solution
FeedbackReflective and data-informedInformative, advisoryShared feedback; mutual input and refinement
ApproachBalanced
Coach facilitates but empowers
Slightly asymmetrical Mentor may guide more based on experienceEqual footing Collaborative contribution and shared decision-making
When to UseTeacher reflection, focus, and self-directed growthWhen the teacher requests ideas, models, or guidance based on your experienceWhen co-creating resources, tackling shared challenges, or innovating together